How my Shameless Wife made me Pack out of the House for Her – Aggrieved Man Shares with Tears
married my wife about 11years ago. By the way I am 46years old. Before I married my wife, I was not doing well neither was my wife. She was working with a multinational company, earning an equivalent of N40,000. I looked for jobs and contracts without any respite. But At this this time, my wife’s support was good and I did appreciate every bit of it. At least we survived on the low…As time went on, I got a job in one of the international corporate training company as a Statistics and Business Analysis Instructor, was earning about 90,000 naira. To cut the story short, after four years of working, the company folded up because of government policies and we were all laid off. This meant we had to prepare for the hard life ahead. It was hectic and devastating. Me being me, I took it with all sense of grace and hope things will be fine. But the more I thought about this the worse things got.
3years down the line, my wife stopped having sex with me and this continued for a long time. I became like “shit in her eyes” I lost a bit of confidence though. she would wake me with insults and barrage of dirty words. Because of our child, I agreed to stay at home and try to work online and seek clients and jobs from old client. It was not bad but not promising.
Fortunately for us, my wife got a promotion and her salary was increased to about 170,000. This actually brought out the worst in my wife. Her calmness disappeared and all decorum was buried. We would quarrel everyday and not talk for weeks. She became really mean and controlled everything at home. Please note, she is not a bad woman but cant explain the reasons up till date. I was with no option but to query her sincerity as a wife and that continued for a long time. Our sex life became zero, she would tell me having sex would make her pregnant and was not ready for a second child. Her stories kept on changing and became even worse, rather than coming home she would pass by her mom and be there till late in the night before coming home.
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In 2018 around September, I discovered that my wife had been having an illicit engagement. She had a male fried and I finally got to know about it and confronted her. She did not deny it, she begged and I forgave her. Anyway, I had made up my made to forgive because of the kid and I never told anyone till date. Moreover, since we were not making love that was of course enough reason for the drastic measure, i told myself. To be sincere I had lost feeling for my wife and sex was difficult.